What if what you’re going through right now isn’t random…
but part of a deeper process of transformation?

There are moments in life that don’t just challenge us. They change us at our core.

A relationship shifts or ends.
A loss opens something we can’t close.
Success arrives… and doesn’t feel the way we thought it would.
A pattern we’ve lived with for years can no longer be ignored.

At COR, we understand these moments as Initiations in Love. Rites of passage where we change irreversibly.

You enter one way… and you come out another.

The question is not whether you are in an initiation.
The question is:

What stage of initiation are you in?

What Is an Initiation?

Initiations are not abstract ideas.
They are lived experiences where something in your life disrupts your normal way of being… and invites you into something deeper, more honest, and more true.

They often don’t feel graceful.

They can feel like confusion, loss, uncertainty, or intensity.
And yet, beneath all of that, something essential is trying to emerge.

Over decades of guiding people through real-life transformation work, a pattern becomes clear:

Most initiations move through five distinct stages.

You may recognize yourself in one of these stages.

Or feel like you’re moving between them.

The quiz will help you locate where you are.

A Path That Has Guided Thousands

This framework comes from decades of transformational work and is at the heart of Britta Eskey’s book, Initiations in Love.

It has helped thousands of people make sense of the most difficult, confusing, and meaningful moments of their lives… and to move through them with greater awareness, courage, and trust.

If this resonates, here are a few ways to continue your journey:

You don’t need to have it all figured out. You don’t need to be further along.
You only need to begin where you are.